17 Most Recent Articles
Written By: Cathi Adams

1	The Family Does Not End with the Marriage Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-12-01 | - Word Count: 504 | Viewed: 977 | Votes: 5 | Rating: 2.00 One of the most painful aspects of divorce is how to tell the children that Mommy and Daddy will not live together anymore. Children are the innocent victims when a marriage falls apart. Your feelings toward your soon-to-be-ex may be bitter and even vengeful. Your children's feelings are not the same. Daddy is still Daddy, no matter what. Your children have every right to love each parent unconditionally. Even though that marriage ends, the family you created is forever. Your ex will forever be tied to you through the children.
2	How to Heal When Your Husband Has Been Unfaithful Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-11-28 | - Word Count: 536 | Viewed: 1183 | Votes: 8 | Rating: 2.63 Lisa knew that something had changed with her husband. He was working longer hours, was tense and showed little interest in her or the children's activities. She never suspected her husband, who was a leader in their place of worship and community, would be unfaithful. She was blindsided when her husband came home one night and said he wanted a divorce because he had fallen in love with another woman.
3	Protect Yourself with the Right Divorce Attorney Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-11-25 | - Word Count: 510 | Viewed: 943 | Votes: 6 | Rating: 2.17 If you are going through a divorce or anticipate your marriage may be ending, you need to make sure your financial future is secure. Women, who often take the hardest emotional blow in the divorce, forget that once the pain is over, they have to live.
4	Finding Health Insurance After a Divorce Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-11-24 | - Word Count: 495 | Viewed: 1037 | Votes: 5 | Rating: 1.60 When you were married, your spouse may have included you on their health insurance policy through their employer. If you don’t work or if you employer does not offer health insurance, you may be worried about what you will do about health insurance after you divorce. In an unstable economy with exorbitant health care costs, you want to have the insurance. Here are some tips for hanging onto coverage or getting new coverage after your divorce.
5	Warning Signs: Expect The Best; Prepare For The Worst – A Woman's Guide To Divorce Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-29 | - Word Count: 519 | Viewed: 1337 | Votes: 15 | Rating: 2.67 When it comes to marriage, a woman never dreams of the worst case scenarios. The dream-like qualities of a 'Happily Ever After' life keep all the negative outcomes pushed well back in her mind. However, divorce is becoming much more common as the years pass. It isn't unusual for a woman to find herself 5 years, 10 years or even 15 years into a marriage, only to be faced with separation and, eventually, divorce.
6	Is Fear Keeping You In An Abusive Marriage? How You Can Escape Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-15 | - Word Count: 377 | Viewed: 1695 | Votes: 12 | Rating: 3.08 I was recently taking in a horror movie with my son when he suddenly made an amazing remark, 'It's not so scary anymore, because we've seen the killer.' How true that statement is in every aspect of life. True horror and real fear is really the fear of the unknown. The less we know about the thing we fear, whatever it is, the scarier it is. This seems to be the main secret that those folks who make horror movies use so effectively.
7	As A Woman Thinking Of Divorce, Is It Necessary To Hire A Divorce Lawyer? Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-14 | - Word Count: 509 | Viewed: 1306 | Votes: 8 | Rating: 3.75 Couples finding themselves in the middle of divorce proceedings are growing in number each year. Some studies are showing that over 50 percent of first time marriages will end in divorce, with subsequent marriages ending at even higher percentages! That means a lot of people looking for the expertise of divorce lawyers.
8	Divorce: Women Need Strong Support Systems Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-07 | - Word Count: 518 | Viewed: 2383 | Votes: 12 | Rating: 3.33 Mothers know best, so they say, but when a woman is going through a divorce, it takes more than 'mum' to lend a helping hand. In fact some women say that when their marriages are in trouble, they don't necessarily turn to their mothers for counselling. They would much rather seek the advice of a marriage therapist or advisor because they seek independent insight and opinion on why their marriages are about to crumble.
9	Are You In An Abusive Marriage? Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-05 | - Word Count: 561 | Viewed: 2105 | Votes: 10 | Rating: 2.70 If a woman is not physically or sexually abused by her husband, people generally conclude there is no abuse. But women should give this question more serious thought. Abuse need not be verbal, physical or sexual. These types of abuse are sufficient grounds to head straight for the divorce courts because a physically or sexually abusive partner needs professional help.
10	Why You Must Plan Your Financial Future, No Matter How Happily Married You Are Right Now Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-12-28 | Life is filled with surprises, and some of these surprises are usually nasty ones. This is the reason why it makes plenty of sense to prepare for any eventualities, especially of the nasty kind.
11	Divorced And Cheated Out Of The Family Finances - How Smart Divorce Lawyers Are Ruining Women Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-12-21 | Lawyers quite often boast of how there is plenty of money to be made from divorce cases. You can be sure that this is no idle lawyer talk, especially when you consider the fact that more and more lawyers are being drawn into this area of legal practice.
12	Is Fear Keeping You In An Abusive Marriage? How You Can Escape Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-12-15 | True horror and real fear is really the fear of the unknown. The less we know about the thing we fear, whatever it is, the scarier it is.
13	Never Use Your Emotions To Time Your Divorce Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-12-07 | Emotions feature prominently in any marriage. So how do you leave them out? Especially in decisions about divorce?
14	Warning Signs: Your Guy May be a Mr. Wrong instead of Mr. Right Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-09-21 | 1. He always make plans at the last minute. He may have several rods on the fire. You might not be his favorite rod. If nothing else comes along then you pop into his head.
15	Divorced And Penniless - Why It Can Happen To You Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-09-16 | What you do not know can actually harm you badly. The truth is that even as you continue to regularly read about those hefty divorce settlements celebrities are getting all the time, some divorce lawyers are fighting back - and succeeding.
16	Making the Decision to Divorce--Why Planning and Preparation are Essential to Your Financial Future Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2004-04-28 | From the time we are little girls, women are taught to believe in the fairy tale union of a man and a woman who love each other. Many women never let go of the fantasy, and when they find the man they want to marry, the end caption on their lives seems like it will be, *And they lived happily ever after.* Unfortunately, statistics show that at least 50% of all marriages end in divorce. Some women are left without important job skills and barely enough money to support themselves, much less several children.
17	HOW TO BECOME HAPPILY DIVORCED Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2004-04-28 | Do you cringe when you hear the word divorce? Many people think you can’t possibly be happy if you are alone. Loneliness is a choice. I am often alone but I am rarely lonely. Many of my clients say that they felt much lonelier when they were in a bad marriage than when they divorced. You can choose to make lemonade out of lemons.