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Article Teaser: How to tell if your woman is really in to you or if she's just in to your money. Offers advice for men on recognizing if their woman is just after the money.

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Is She A Golddigger?

Copyright (c) 2007-2017 , All Rights Reserved

We live in an age where we're always questioning motives. It's a sad commentary, but it's also unavoidable. There was a time when a man assumed a woman was with him because she wanted to be with him, but now we're wondering if a woman wants us for our money.

First of all, you need to ask if you're so incredibly rich that money is an issue. If you're with someone and you're not worth a fortune, you might be in a genuine relationship. On the other hand, if you're worth several million dollars, it's okay to wonder if someone is with you because of who you are or because of what you can offer them.

Think about how she treats you. Does it seem as if she's always expecting for you to pick up the tab or to always take her out to the really expensive places? When you go out, does she seem to spend a lot of time talking about things that she'd really like to get, or do you find that your conversations are about a variety of subjects – some of which don't concern money.

Next, examine how she is with you and her friends. Do you feel as if you're a part of her life when you go out with her friends, or do you get the feeling that you're really not wanted there, other than to hand over your gold card? Does she sometimes joke that you're her "sugar daddy?" Do you sometimes feel more like her father than her boyfriend? If so, you might really want to examine where this relationship is and how real it is.

How about the physical aspects? Does she seem to genuinely want to be with you? Does she initiate intimacy when you're alone – and when you haven't bought her anything or given her an expensive gift? Do you feel a genuine connection when the two of you are together, or is there something that doesn't quite feel right – something that's not real, something's that more like an act?

You might find out how she feels about you if you buy her little things that are not expensive. Give her a book of poems. Get her a single rose. Take her out to dinner in a place that isn't four stars. Watch how she is when she's not being overwhelmed with your money. If you're getting the impression that she's disappointed that you're not spending a lot of money on her, it might be time to examine the situation carefully.

Also, what does she do for you? Does she go out of her way to do little things for you? She might not have a lot of money, but does she come over and give you a neck massage when you're tired? Does she have a way of making you feel wanted? If that's the case, you might well have someone who cares about you and even though the fact you have money is nice, it's not what keeps her with you.

You need to make sure before you end a relationship because you suspect her of being a gold-digger that you're not throwing away a genuine person who could be great in your life.


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