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Common Sexual Saboteur is Ruining Relationships

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Is Your Relationship At Risk?

Over 75% of North American couples are silently struggling with a problem so severe that it ends an estimated 65% of relationships every year. If that wasn't bad enough, this deal breaking harbinger of heart ache and emotional woe can enter into our love lives at any point and leave them completely destroyed. Its called premature ejaculation, and if you haven't experienced its effects get ready because the odds are stacked against you. North America's most respected and credible authority on sexual dysfunction, the Kinsley Sexual Institute, reports that 60% of all relationships are suffering from the emotional turmoil caused by premature ejaculation or PE.

Identifying PE can be confusing without an accurate definition, however today's sexual therapists agree that premature ejaculation occurs whenever a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with the sexual or emotional well-being of one or both partners in a sexual relationship.

The Effects of PE on Your Relationship

The reason PE is so detrimental to the longevity of a relationship is the result of bedroom activity effecting our relationship outside the bedroom. When a man feels he has left his partner sexually unsatisfied it can have a big effect on his confidence levels. He may become depressed and unresponsive to his partner.

On the flip side of the coin males may also lash out in frustration and anger. Unable to face the issue, or, in some cases even identify it the problem persists and snowballs until the relationship is brought to a jarring halt.

Women on the other hand who experience sexual dissatisfaction become unimpressed by, and disinterested in their partners. They may even seek sexual satisfaction from another partner putting their relationship in severe jeopardy.

At first glance it may seem the males responsibility to take control of the problem and find a solution for himself. While many men do this, sex experts agree that a females supportive role can go a long way to ending PE due to the sometimes emotional nature of the condition.

An Uphill Battle

Overcoming PE is challenging in part due to its role in nature. The biologically driven goal of our existence is reproduction. The joy of sexual stimulation has evolved to act as motivation to achieve this end. The expectation for complete sexual satisfaction is reasonable, but completely "unnatural". Men have been biologically programed to ejaculate quickly because of the vulnerability created by, and necessary for, successful sexual intercourse.

Does this mean this problem is without a solution? Fortunatly this is not the case but before you can begin to treat PE you have to understand it. There are 2 main contributing factors to the occurrence of PE.

Factor #1 - Emotional/Psychological Problems

By far the most common cause of PE, emotional/psychological problems effect 90% of sexual relationships at one point or another. In the case of PE everything from temporary depression to stress over financial matters can be the cause. Couples that have unrealistic expectations about sexual performance also experience problems. A history of sexual repression or an over all lack of confidence can also cause PE.

In terms of your relationship premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy.

Factor #2 - Neurological Issues

The brain can sometimes play a significant role in both the existence and prevention of PE.

It has been proven that low levels of serotonin, a chemical in the brain, can be the root cause of premature ejaculation. SSRI's (drugs that boost serotonin levels) can be taken to help treat PE. It is also common for some men to simply have a faster response neurologically in the pelvic region that results in sudden ejaculation.

The natural process to finding a solution to PE is to examine your relationship and talk to your partner to determine and eliminate any emotional or psychological barriers preventing sexual satisfaction. If you have trouble talking to your partner there are guides available online that can help. These guides also provide helpful tips and exercises to improve sexual longevity and performance. If you've tried these solutions the next step is to seek medical assistance.

Where to Go For Help

Sex Therapists

A sex therapist can be a valuable resource in treating PE. However many men refuse to see them because they feel too embarrassed. Sex Therapists can also be very expensive and provide no guarantee they can solve your problem. If they can't help, you will have spent a lot of money for nothing.

Your Family Doctor

If you have tried various solutions without much success chances are that you or your partners PE is the result of a neurological imbalance. Your doctor can prescribe medication to help solve the problem.

The Internet

Due to the embarrassing nature of the condition few resources for PE available at the book store. However there are many highly informative and helpful resources available online that can be purchased and immediately accessed on your computer.

If your relationship is being effected by premature ejaculation don't ignore the problem. It won't solve itself and if left unattended it could bring a premature end not only to your sex, but to your relationship as well. Isn't a healthy and loving relationship worth the effort? Take action now and find a solution before you lose what you love the most in life!


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