Warning Signs: Expect The Best; Prepare For The Worst – A Woman's Guide To Divorce

The Family Does Not End with the Marriage
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-12-01 | Word Count: 504 | Page Views: 3788 | Votes: 7 | Rating: 1.43
One of the most painful aspects of divorce is how to tell the children that Mommy and Daddy will not live together anymore. Children are the innocent victims when a marriage falls apart. Your feelings toward your soon-to-be-ex may be bitter and even vengeful. Your children's feelings are not the same. Daddy is still Daddy, no matter what. Your children have every right to love each parent unconditionally. Even though that marriage ends, the family you created is forever. Your ex will forever be tied to you through the children.

How to Heal When Your Husband Has Been Unfaithful
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-11-28 | Word Count: 536 | Page Views: 3957 | Votes: 10 | Rating: 2.10
Lisa knew that something had changed with her husband. He was working longer hours, was tense and showed little interest in her or the children's activities. She never suspected her husband, who was a leader in their place of worship and community, would be unfaithful. She was blindsided when her husband came home one night and said he wanted a divorce because he had fallen in love with another woman.

Protect Yourself with the Right Divorce Attorney
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-11-25 | Word Count: 510 | Page Views: 3810 | Votes: 8 | Rating: 1.63
If you are going through a divorce or anticipate your marriage may be ending, you need to make sure your financial future is secure. Women, who often take the hardest emotional blow in the divorce, forget that once the pain is over, they have to live.

Finding Health Insurance After a Divorce
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2008-11-24 | Word Count: 495 | Page Views: 4033 | Votes: 7 | Rating: 1.14
When you were married, your spouse may have included you on their health insurance policy through their employer. If you don’t work or if you employer does not offer health insurance, you may be worried about what you will do about health insurance after you divorce. In an unstable economy with exorbitant health care costs, you want to have the insurance. Here are some tips for hanging onto coverage or getting new coverage after your divorce.

Is Fear Keeping You In An Abusive Marriage? How You Can Escape
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-15 | Word Count: 377 | Page Views: 4961 | Votes: 16 | Rating: 2.38
I was recently taking in a horror movie with my son when he suddenly made an amazing remark, 'It's not so scary anymore, because we've seen the killer.' How true that statement is in every aspect of life. True horror and real fear is really the fear of the unknown. The less we know about the thing we fear, whatever it is, the scarier it is. This seems to be the main secret that those folks who make horror movies use so effectively.

As A Woman Thinking Of Divorce, Is It Necessary To Hire A Divorce Lawyer?
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-14 | Word Count: 509 | Page Views: 3960 | Votes: 10 | Rating: 3.00
Couples finding themselves in the middle of divorce proceedings are growing in number each year. Some studies are showing that over 50 percent of first time marriages will end in divorce, with subsequent marriages ending at even higher percentages! That means a lot of people looking for the expertise of divorce lawyers.

Divorce: Women Need Strong Support Systems
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-07 | Word Count: 518 | Page Views: 6111 | Votes: 15 | Rating: 2.73
Mothers know best, so they say, but when a woman is going through a divorce, it takes more than 'mum' to lend a helping hand. In fact some women say that when their marriages are in trouble, they don't necessarily turn to their mothers for counselling. They would much rather seek the advice of a marriage therapist or advisor because they seek independent insight and opinion on why their marriages are about to crumble.

Are You In An Abusive Marriage?
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-05 | Word Count: 561 | Page Views: 4980 | Votes: 12 | Rating: 2.25
If a woman is not physically or sexually abused by her husband, people generally conclude there is no abuse. But women should give this question more serious thought. Abuse need not be verbal, physical or sexual. These types of abuse are sufficient grounds to head straight for the divorce courts because a physically or sexually abusive partner needs professional help.

Why You Must Plan Your Financial Future, No Matter How Happily Married You Are Right Now
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-12-28 | Word Count: 0 | Page Views: 1783 | Votes: 2 | Rating: 0.50
Life is filled with surprises, and some of these surprises are usually nasty ones. This is the reason why it makes plenty of sense to prepare for any eventualities, especially of the nasty kind.

Divorced And Cheated Out Of The Family Finances - How Smart Divorce Lawyers Are Ruining Women
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2005-12-21 | Word Count: 0 | Page Views: 2516 | Votes: 2 | Rating: 0.50
Lawyers quite often boast of how there is plenty of money to be made from divorce cases. You can be sure that this is no idle lawyer talk, especially when you consider the fact that more and more lawyers are being drawn into this area of legal practice.

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Why We Women Are Our Own Greatest Enemy When Dating
Written by: RoseMary Alberts | Distributed: 2013-11-06 | Word Count: 544 | Page Views: 7793 | Votes: 33 | Rating: 1.97
I have learned that while there are women who want to be committed to one man, there are some others who seek only attention, gifts, dinners, movies etc, and still others who are only interested in having a physical relationship. But all these three categories cannot be used as a base to judge women and their point of view about relationships only because, like I said, "Women never know what they want." So read on and you will know what I mean...

When A Strong Woman Can Make You A Better Man
Written by: Coalton Reynolds | Distributed: 2013-11-05 | Word Count: 625 | Page Views: 10431 | Votes: 24 | Rating: 2.04
Behind every man, there is a strong women. After my recent split with my girlfriend of two years I have found myself thinking how much I have changed. At first, I just thought I was only different around her, but now I seem to be a totally different person.

Tips to Help You Get Back in the Dating Game After a Long-Term Relationship Ends
Written by: RoseMary Alberts | Distributed: 2013-10-30 | Word Count: 773 | Page Views: 7682 | Votes: 24 | Rating: 1.50
There are very few things in life that are as terrifying, frustrating, rewarding, exciting and just plain crazy as dating; especially if you have ceased to be a "spring chicken" or have been out of the dating scene for many years. If you've found yourself "back on the market" after being in a committed relationship for many years, you may be petrified by the prospect of dating again. The tips in this article will help you get back into the game quickly and successfully...

The Eight Commandments of Online Dating
Written by: Kandice Skaggs | Distributed: 2013-10-24 | Word Count: 1153 | Page Views: 4590 | Votes: 9 | Rating: 1.22
Dating and "desperate" may start with the same letter, but they are not synonymous. Never were and never will be. If you take the time to follow these eight online dating commandments, you might be able to find the happiness you seek at the other end of your online dating communications.

The Day My Daughter Woke Me Up to See That Her Father Never Really Loved Me
Written by: Mary Ann Lipitz | Distributed: 2013-10-18 | Word Count: 527 | Page Views: 6589 | Votes: 26 | Rating: 2.04
I am 31 years old with two children, and I was in a relationship with the man I loved until two years ago. We were not married but we lived together, and yes he is the father of my children. We had been together for more than five years at that point, but we never felt the need to get married. We had been happy the way things were, until one day my daughter changed all that, at least for me.

Dating Rules Explained: How to Turn Your Date Into a Relationship
Written by: RoseMary Alberts | Distributed: 2013-10-16 | Word Count: 779 | Page Views: 8393 | Votes: 28 | Rating: 1.64
How adults behave on a date depends more on their intentions towards the other person than it does on other factors. For instance, a man who really likes a woman is going to behave differently towards her than he would a woman he is only casually interested in. Sometimes, it is hard to know the difference.

6 Things You Can Do Today To Reduce Your Carbon Footprint Tomorrow
Written by: Lee Dobbins | Distributed: 2011-12-12 | Word Count: 845 | Page Views: 6135 | Votes: 6 | Rating: 0.67
Reducing your carbon footprint is something that everyone should strive for but what if you don't have a lot of money to buy eco friendly appliances and hybrid cars? Here are 6 easy things that you can do right now to help reduce your carbon footprint. These won't cost you a dime and might even save you some money!

Raise Responsible Children
Written by: Marvin Marshall, Ed.D. | Distributed: 2011-07-19 | Word Count: 926 | Page Views: 569 | Votes: 1 | Rating: 3.00
Using the strategies outlined here will help give your children both roots and wings. You will find yourself on the parenting journey to raise responsible children with less stress and more enjoyment for everyone involved.

Alpaca Wear Makes Terrific Gifts for Men and Women
Written by: Robert Moore | Distributed: 2010-07-27 | Word Count: 772 | Page Views: 4448 | Votes: 3 | Rating: 0.67
Alpaca wear has a long and venerable history and the first record of Alpacas was in the Andean mountains. Alpacas were perfect for producing a fiber suitable for protecting these people from their extreme climate. Alpaca fiber is similar to wool and known for its beauty, luster, warmth, and stain resistance.

Top Ten 'Mistakes' Made by Parents America
Written by: Ryan Hogan | Distributed: 2010-04-27 | Word Count: 970 | Page Views: 5328 | Votes: 3 | Rating: 0.67
On one hand the word "mistake" may be too harsh. Every child is different and only you really know if your offspring is happy and flourishing. Therefore, who is to say what a parenting mistake is and is not? On the other hand, "mistake" may not be harsh enough.

Girls Sleepover Party Ideas
Written by: Jillian Gallo | Distributed: 2008-09-16 | Word Count: 837 | Page Views: 16693 | Votes: 140 | Rating: 2.04
Throwing a sleepover for your daughter is one of the most memorable events she will have from her childhood. Regardless of her age, these parties make memories she will take with her as she grows up. How can you make these nights more memorable? By following a few tips, you can make the most out of your daughter's next sleepover.

How To Identify Toxic Black Mold
Written by: Daryl Watters | Distributed: 2007-05-08 | Word Count: 405 | Page Views: 14144 | Votes: 20 | Rating: 2.35
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Graduation Flowers Are At The Head Of The Class
Written by: Wesley Berry, AAF | Distributed: 2008-04-24 | Word Count: 538 | Page Views: 13935 | Votes: 29 | Rating: 1.69
The coming of spring signals new beginnings, and each year many young adults take the first steps toward that new beginning when they walk across the stage to accept a diploma at their graduation ceremony. Of course, with graduation comes excitement, smiles, tears, a big celebration, and lots of wonderful memories. One way to help make the day even more beautiful and memorable is with flowers.

When A Strong Woman Can Make You A Better Man
Written by: Coalton Reynolds | Distributed: 2013-11-05 | Word Count: 625 | Page Views: 10431 | Votes: 24 | Rating: 2.04
Behind every man, there is a strong women. After my recent split with my girlfriend of two years I have found myself thinking how much I have changed. At first, I just thought I was only different around her, but now I seem to be a totally different person.

Selective Mutism Disorder Is More Of A Problem Than You Think
Written by: Ingrid Stenquist | Distributed: 2007-04-11 | Word Count: 682 | Page Views: 9095 | Votes: 27 | Rating: 3.63
One of the worst and most severe manifestations of childhood social anxiety disorders is labeled as Selective Mutism disorder. Originally, fifteen years ago the disorder was called Elective Mutism because doctors figured that all children who didn't talk were either shy or in another category. Elective mutes were seen as belligerent, stubborn, and obnoxious kids who were rebelling by not talking against some effort in order to get attention.

Pepper Spray: How Does it Feel to Get Blasted?
Written by: Fred Cheney | Distributed: 2007-12-18 | Word Count: 477 | Page Views: 9044 | Votes: 22 | Rating: 2.64
It's something to think about. What would happen if you tried to use pepper spray and it sprayed into your own eyes? And, could you accidentally blind someone with it? Permanently maim them? What are the effects of pepper spray? These are important questions and they certainly have answers.

Destructive Behaviors That Cause a Relationship Break Up
Written by: James Kern | Distributed: 2009-07-15 | Word Count: 644 | Page Views: 9017 | Votes: 21 | Rating: 2.43
On the surface, you think that being in love is the greatest thing since sliced bread, but underneath you're flailing and kicking and trying to get back to the status quo, which is you being alone and miserable. It sucks, but you're used to life there. If Alone and Miserable were a bar, everybody there would know your name.

How To Find Work At Home Jobs For Work At Home Moms
Written by: Glen OReilly | Distributed: 2009-11-03 | Word Count: 1512 | Page Views: 8964 | Votes: 23 | Rating: 2.52
As the economy continues to tighten for many American families, more moms are looking to the Internet to find the extra money needed to help their families survive during this economically challenging time. The good news is that there are plenty of opportunities for the mom seeking to earn money from home... When you know where to find them... This article will show you where to find those work-at-home jobs and telecommuting jobs you desire...

I Want My Ex Back! 5 Tips That Will Improve Your Chances
Written by: James Kern | Distributed: 2009-03-03 | Word Count: 625 | Page Views: 8465 | Votes: 9 | Rating: 2.89
Five killer tips that help you claw back your ex, even if your situation seems in dire straits.

Dating Rules Explained: How to Turn Your Date Into a Relationship
Written by: RoseMary Alberts | Distributed: 2013-10-16 | Word Count: 779 | Page Views: 8393 | Votes: 28 | Rating: 1.64
How adults behave on a date depends more on their intentions towards the other person than it does on other factors. For instance, a man who really likes a woman is going to behave differently towards her than he would a woman he is only casually interested in. Sometimes, it is hard to know the difference.

Selective Mutism Disorder Is More Of A Problem Than You Think
Written by: Ingrid Stenquist | Distributed: 2007-04-11 | Word Count: 682 | Page Views: 9095 | Votes: 27 | Rating: 3.63
One of the worst and most severe manifestations of childhood social anxiety disorders is labeled as Selective Mutism disorder. Originally, fifteen years ago the disorder was called Elective Mutism because doctors figured that all children who didn't talk were either shy or in another category. Elective mutes were seen as belligerent, stubborn, and obnoxious kids who were rebelling by not talking against some effort in order to get attention.

Being a Parent... Opportunities to Turn A Bad Experience Into a Good Experience
Written by: Bill Platt | Distributed: 2007-11-12 | Word Count: 478 | Page Views: 5296 | Votes: 15 | Rating: 3.33
The biggest challenge I have had to face in my own life is that of being a good parent. My kids make it hard for me to stay true to the rules of good parenting... They break everything I own... Repeatedly... Fortunately, I do have the presence of mind to realize that as toddlers and young children, they really do not intend to break things...

Anybody Can Spend, but Can You Save?
Written by: Rich Thawley | Distributed: 2009-01-22 | Word Count: 527 | Page Views: 4228 | Votes: 20 | Rating: 3.25
We have a great weakness in our society of wanting immediate gratification. We are under a constant barrage in all forms of media to buy this or to buy that. In our world of credit cards and charge accounts it is a challenge for many to resist the temptations of materialism. Don't get me wrong, I think it's fun to have nice things, but only after we can afford them.

How Can Bible Study Help Kids Grow Up?
Written by: Adam Barnett | Distributed: 2007-10-23 | Word Count: 463 | Page Views: 5018 | Votes: 13 | Rating: 3.15
Bible study is probably the number one way to keep your kids on the right path, and keep them out of trouble. We can't watch our kids all day and night, and we can't keep bad influences from coming to them. But what we CAN do is make sure they know wrong from right. This will help them when they face problems and major decisions on their own.

Finding True Love Through Intimacy
Written by: Daniel Linder, MFT | Distributed: 2006-06-02 | Word Count: 1466 | Page Views: 3742 | Votes: 12 | Rating: 3.00
A lot of people have been asking about true love; is there such a thing; if so, what is it? Is it attainable; if so, how attainable is it? If it were just love, I wouldn't have so much difficulty. But, true love?

Home Alone Child Safety
Written by: Jerry Tarrer | Distributed: 2007-03-21 | Word Count: 1038 | Page Views: 4248 | Votes: 8 | Rating: 3.00
Your child's safety depends to a large part on good communication between you and your children. This is especially true of two-income families, and single parent families where the children are left alone for extended periods of time and have to care for themselves.

Can Rats, Chemical Odors, Or Even Stress, Cause Mold Like Health Reactions In Homeowners And Office Workers?
Written by: Daryl Watters | Distributed: 2007-06-26 | Word Count: 1564 | Page Views: 4538 | Votes: 7 | Rating: 3.00
Mold is and always has been a major contributor in building related illness. I have seen many clients who were ill as the result of living with mold. However, one must not overlook the possibility of other contributing factors such as cigarette smoke, non mold related bio-allergens such as cat and dog dander, rat and mice allergens, and chemical contaminates such as pesticides or volatile organic compounds.

As A Woman Thinking Of Divorce, Is It Necessary To Hire A Divorce Lawyer?
Written by: Cathi Adams | Distributed: 2007-06-14 | Word Count: 509 | Page Views: 3960 | Votes: 10 | Rating: 3.00
Couples finding themselves in the middle of divorce proceedings are growing in number each year. Some studies are showing that over 50 percent of first time marriages will end in divorce, with subsequent marriages ending at even higher percentages! That means a lot of people looking for the expertise of divorce lawyers.

PB and Js And Licking The Bowl - The Joys Of A Kid Friendly Kitchen!
Written by: Pamela Cole Harris | Distributed: 2008-02-14 | Word Count: 554 | Page Views: 5075 | Votes: 8 | Rating: 3.00
Remember licking the bowl when you were a kid? Or making your own peanut butter sandwiches with grape, or better yet strawberry, jelly? Mmmmm... the smell of homemade oatmeal cookies! And they were even better because you knew you helped make them! Kitchens can be a place of special memories for kids of any generation. Are you building those memories with your children or do you view the kitchen as a dangerous place for kids?

Educational Toys Can Be Fun
Written by: Kim Michael | Distributed: 2009-04-01 | Word Count: 521 | Page Views: 3344 | Votes: 10 | Rating: 3.00
Most parents these days are looking for toys that can be both educational and fun. When playing with our children, parents want to teach as well as have fun.