These days you seldom meet a single person who never tried online 
dating - unless they aren't Internet users.

Since you are reading this, I assume you ARE online - so this 
information can be crucial for your online dating success.

Most people placing personal ads on Internet dating sites seem to 
do everything to RUIN any of their chances for success. Are you 
one of them?

Here is how to ruin your online dating campaign:

1. CHOOSE A SLEAZY USER NAME

Dating sites usually display your user name in your personal 
profile. So, if you choose something like "hardcoreXXX" or 
"badgirl_69", you are sure to mess up your chances dramatically.

2. WRITE A TIMID MESSAGE

Every day I see people writing in their messages things like, 
"I hate this part but here it goes", "I never know what to write 
here" or simply "Ask me". Your personal message is the only thing 
in your profile that is UN-structured - the rest are usually just 
tick boxes. Make sure you don't say anything interesting here, so 
no one will feel compelled to learn more about you.

3. DON'T HAVE ANY PARTNER REQUREMENTS

Your requirements for a partner say VOLUMES about YOU. If you do 
not have any requirements for a partner, you will sound 
absolutely desperate. No one is attracted to desperate people.

4. DON'T UPLOAD A PHOTO

Most users of dating sites search for profiles with photos. If 
you do not upload your photo, no one will find your ad. It will 
also severely damage the chances of your "Hi's", "Virtual Kisses" 
or "Smiles" being answered.

5. DON'T PAY FOR PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP

Usually online dating sites will allow you to place your personal 
ad for free, but to write to other singles, you have to buy a 
subscription. Although the price of subscription is cheaper than 
the price of a movie ticket and popcorn, you should not be 
tempted. By sticking with the free membership, you ensure you 
cannot contact anyone. Also some sites place ads of premium 
members on top of the search results. If you do not pay, your ad 
will appear on the page 247 of the search results - which will 
make it nearly impossible to find.

6. DON'T CONTACT OTHER MEMBERS

Most online dating services will allow you to contact other 
members for free by sending a "Hi", "Virtual Kiss", "Icebreaker" 
or "Smile" - an expression of interest, to which the other member 
can respond. Don't send any of those to anyone, or they may just 
answer positively. Think only about how bad would you feel if 
they rejected your advances.

7. DON'T CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOUR AD

Don't attempt to change anything in your ad. If you change 
something, it may just start working. Keep with what doesn't 
produce any results.

8. DON'T LOGIN TO THE WEBSITE - EVER

Once you placed your personal ad, immediately forget about it -
and forget your user name and password, too. Don't login to the 
website again. If you do, your ad may jump to the top of the 
search results and someone may write to you. Don't take this 
risk. Just place the ad and forget about it.

If you follow this simple guidance, I can guarantee that you will 
flawlessly ruin any chances for success with online dating sites 
and your love life will stay just the way it is! 

Elena Solomon has been involved in online dating since the 
early days of WWW. She is the exclusive dating consultant of 
Soulmades.com.au - Internet personals for singles seeking love, 
romance, relationships and fun.
Elena is the author of "12 Simple Rules for Success in Love". 
For a limited time, you can get this popular e-book absolutely 
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