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What do you do when your marriage becomes routine? For many of
us, the everyday routine of work, child care, and bill paying
extends to our lovemaking with our spouses. But, no matter how
long you've been married, there are plenty of ways to spice up
your love life. Let's start in the bedroom - the hub of hubba
hubba!
Gentlemen, Start Your Engines
1. Decorate your bedroom with pictures of yourself and your
partner. Choose pictures that bring back happy memories of times
you had as a couple. For instance, your wedding, a special date,
or a vacation. Avoid hanging pictures of relatives: family
pictures belong in the family room. It's a real turn-off to see
your grandparents and in-laws scowling at you while you're naked
and ready for romance.
2. Speaking of mood: mood lighting can work wonders for a bland
bedroom. Soft lighting helps to warm the atmosphere and it makes
people look sexier too. You want to be able to see what you're
doing, without blinding your partner or having to grope around
clumsily in the dark. Install a dimmer switch for a bedside lamp.
Some people like to buy black lights (UV light bulbs available at
Lowe's or Home Depot) because the bulbs create the appearance of
a sexy tan on your bodies.
3. Roses, orchids and other scented flowers can fill your room
with romance. Scented candles-especially lavender and pumpkin-are
a type of aromatherapy that many people find arousing.
4. Lock you door! If you don't have a lock, get one. It's almost
impossible to lose yourself in the moment if you're worried that
you will be found out any minute by an intruding child.
Ladies, Start His Engine
Now that the bedroom is ready for action, it's time to use it!
Ladies, sometimes it's best to take charge and turn him on for a
change. Why should he have to instigate everything? Here are a
few tips to get his motor running.
1. Make the first move and continue to direct the action. Men get
tired of having to call the plays all the time. Having a woman
take charge will be something out of a fantasy for him.
2. Arrange a night out, but keep your plans a secret. What could
make your man feel more special than to have his loved one plan
and pay for an intimate evening together?
Another way to show your partner that he is desired is to play up
the little things.
1. Leave little love notes in his lunch box and on his pillow.
His coworkers might give him some grief at first. But, every
other man will be wishing his wife left notes for him.
2. Demonstrate a bit more affection in public. No need to
embarrass him or make him feel uncomfortable. But mini massages,
kisses on the cheek and toying with his hair are ways to let him
feel that he is desired. Let the world know you're in love. Let
the world - and your man - know that you just can't keep your
hands off him. That's a real ego boost for a man. He'll
appreciate it and feel flattered.
3. Dress up once in a while. Toss off the flannel and turn up the
glamour. Strut your stuff and remind him how beautiful you really
are. When you were dating, you dressed to impress and to attract.
Dress tonight like you dressed when you were dating.
Every couple has their own ways of showing affection. Also, every
couple needs to be comfortable with new ways of demonstrating
romantic gestures. So, try some of these suggestions. See which
ones work best for you-and for him. Doing the things you did when
you wanted to get married might just be the things that help you
stay married. Turn back the romance clock, and turn on the fun.
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