Do’s are what enhances relationships. Don’ts are what kill
relationships. Our surrounding is made up of different people
from different backgrounds. Our upbringing, past dating and
relationship experiences, etc. all mold our thinking. Even the
consequences from our own relationship choices may mold our
thinking. As a result, you may develop positive or negatives
characteristics from your past relationship experiences. Hence
the experiences will become characteristics you will take into
the next relationship. So in effect, whether your relationships 
is going to work or not is predetermined. It all depends on 
the characteristics you choose to take with you into your
relationship. I say this for several reasons. One reason is all
human being are capable of changing. As an adult you have a
choice in what characteristic you wish to sustain. It is safe to
say how you treat your relationship is a choice you make.

Assuming your last relationship was a bad experience; learn not
to take that experience into your next relationship. There is a
good reason for that. If you want to find that special someone,
it is best to introduce positive characteristics into your dating
practices. Here is why. The human heart does several things. One
of the things it does is it acts as your guide. Your heart,
believe it or not is your compass if you wish to be lead to your
soulmate.

Some relationship experts refer to the heart as spirit, inner
guide, conscience and so forth. The true mission of your
conscience is to direct and teach truth. When you endeavor to
doing things that are right you are in effect following your
conscience dictates. Characteristics and habits of those who
follow directions from their conscience to acquire meaningful
relationships are such as: integrity, harmony, temperance,
patience, thankfulness, honesty, joy, love, goodness,
forgiveness, humility, respect, trust, understanding etc. I call
these characteristics Do’s of relationships. They are qualities
that enhance love between man and woman. These qualities
predetermine how you will treat your lover. Further more your
characteristics also tell your love interest what kind of man or
woman you are. Those who are authorities in relationships
discovered the collapse of most relationships and marriages are
attributed to selfishness. For example, the very moment you
decide to enter a relationship just for what you want, you have
pre-programmed the relationship to fail. Why? Because your 
intention is not about sharing your heart with another person 
but to get what you want. Try and have a relationship that is 
not me, me, me relationship. This way you will have a greater 
chance of succeeding. What I am sharing with you has been 
researched and proven to be one of the best ways to find your 
Mr. or Mrs. Right.

Relationships are about two people. Take into consideration 
your partners feelings as well as yours. When you decide to 
enter a relationship with positive characteristics you have 
pre-programmed your relationship to work. Consider the words 
that represent positive characteristics. Do you notice how they 
also represent real love? Real love is absolutely needed in 
relationships. It helps prevent you from emotionally injuring 
your partner. The best part of it is you will not create a 
person who becomes male or female basher in case the relationship 
turns out to be temporal.

Fact, if you follow your conscience or inner guide you will be
directed away from sparking a dead end relationship. You will be
directed to find your soulmate. Human beings were not created to
be alone. Neither are we here to have failed relationships. In
case you are asking your self, what if I go into a relationship
with positive qualities and it does not work? The answer to that
is simple. Remember relationships take two people. You may have
good intentions before interring a relationship but your love
interest may not. In the event that you missed the directions
from your conscience, it is okay. Remember this saying? If at
first you don’t succeed try again. When you try something and it
does not work, there is the likelihood that next time you will
use a different approach. Changing you approach actually puts you
in a better position to succeed next time around provided you do
not become discourage by giving up. It is very critical you use
methods that are proven to work. Finding that special someone or
your soulmate is actually easier than you thought. I can assure
you of that. There are fact base and proven methods you can use
to find your soulmate. Never ever allow your self to be part of
those who claim finding a perfect companion is hard. They are
people who have given up and want you to become a quitter just
like them. Create a mindset that attracts success. Negative
thoughts and discouragement leads to failure. Positive thinking
attracts success.

Negative characteristics are such as: vindictiveness, discord,
contention, dishonesty, pride, hate, faultfinding, envy, gossip,
disrespect, lies, unforgiving, impatience, discouragement,
selfishness etc. These negatives characteristics are what I call
Don’ts of relationships. They are relationship and marriage
killers. They put strain on your relationship and love life. If
you are serious about finding that special someone listen and
follow your inner guide. Avoid taking negative characteristics
into relationship. As a writer and relationship advisor, I try to
help my readers by providing free advice on my Website. The site
also contains the most powerful relationship secrets ever
revealed in an e-book. Depending on researched and proven facts
will help you find that special someone. Even bringing out the
best in your dates contribute to helping you succeed. Improve
your chances of success by adopting and introduce characteristics
that will help enhance your relationship. 

To get started, I suggest drawing a straight line on a piece of 
paper. Above the line you may list the positive words at the 
beginning of this article. Bellow the line list the negative 
words that represents negative characteristics. You may choose 
to include your own words if needed. Now transform the words 
into action in your mind. Pretend there are two people on either 
side of you. One is treating you in a matter that represents the 
words above the line. The second person is treating you in ways 
that represent the words bellow the line. Assess your feelings 
as to how you are being treated the two imaginary people. 
Eliminate the negative words from your mind. From then on try 
and follow your inner guide accompanied by the positive words 
that illustrates positive characteristics. Use it to enhance 
your relationship, love life or dating habits. Remember if you 
want relationship that works, if you want to find your soulmate, 
you must make choices that will lead you to what you are looking 
for. Your choice of thoughts and actions will achieve their 
appropriate results. Good luck.