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    The Road to “Pendingville” is Paved with Good Intentions
    Copyright © 2005, Mark Dembo and Thomas J. Baskind

    If you’ve been in sales for any length of time, or have 
    participated is a sales training program, chances are you’ve 
    been taught to look for “buying signals” from your prospects.  
    Buying signals can be important; but they can also easily be 
    misinterpreted.  We recently read an article in which the author 
    equates certain statements or requests from your prospect with 
    indication they are ready to buy.  For example:
    
     - Your prospect repeats a question that has been answered fully.
    
     - Your prospect asks for a sample
    
     - Your prospect makes “positive noises.”
    
     - Your prospect makes “any comment or question about price”
    
     - Your prospect asks for references.
    
     - Your prospect asks for your guidance or opinion.
    
     - Your prospect mentions a negative experience with a previous 
       supplier.
    
    
    Are these buying signals?   Maybe.  Maybe not.  They could simply
    be questions that serve to clarify or gain an understanding of 
    what you can do for them.   Certainly, queries or comments like 
    those listed above indicate that your prospect is at least 
    “playing ball” with you – that they are engaged in an active 
    sales process, and have some level of interest.    
    
    If we take these buying signals as gospel, we run a real danger 
    of driving ourselves down a road of false hope toward the land of
    “Pendingville.”   Ever been there?   In a meeting, the prospect 
    shows some of these positive signs and you walk out of the 
    meeting feeling like you’ve got the sale in the bag.  You 
    follow-up by sending the information the prospect requested, 
    you provide samples, you provide references, you give them a 
    full-blown white paper offering guidance and advice.   And then 
    you call them – presumably to close the deal, and your call goes 
    unanswered.  You call again.  You e-mail.  You stop by their 
    office.  You send them cute and funny notes.  You pray.
    
    In the meantime, your manager asks you how it’s going with the 
    prospect.  You tell her, “Looks great, just waiting for the 
    green light to get started.”  Week after week, it's the same 
    story.  If you have enough of these prospects in your pipeline, 
    you’re looking forward to next month when you’re sure all of 
    these wonderful people will get back to you with that huge 
    order.   And, since you know you will have this huge influx 
    of new business you figure there’s no reason to do any new 
    prospecting because you’re going to be so busy with these new 
    accounts you won’t even have time to handle more. 
    
    The next month comes, and nothing happens.  Then you start to 
    panic; your boss is wondering what happened to all those huge 
    deals.  That Hawaiian vacation you were already planning in your 
    mind vanishes from view.   You realize you’d better get busy and 
    get some new things going.  And again, the cycle is repeated.
    
    What was missing in this process?  The NOT-buying signals.   
    Spending too much time with prospects that either aren’t going 
    to buy or aren’t ready to buy is one of the biggest mistakes 
    that salespeople make – even veterans.  By nature, all of us 
    in sales are optimists – we want to believe that everyone who 
    tells us they’re interested is in fact going to buy from us. 
    
    To protect ourselves and our income, though, we need to take a 
    step back and sometimes play the cynic.   Here are some of the 
    things you should be looking for that could be indicators it’s 
    time to move on:
    
     - Will the prospect agree to a firm next step with you?  (For 
       more on this topic see “The Art and Skill of the Next Step.)  
       If not, it may be time to move on.
    
     - Have repeated calls to a seemingly “hot prospect” gone 
       unreturned? 
    
     - When you speak to the prospect do you hear something like 
       “I really like your proposal, but I need to do (fill in the 
       blank) to get it moving forward”?
    
     - Another variation of the above:  “We really want to move 
       forward, we just need a bit more time”, or “We really want 
       to move forward, but we’ve had some other priorities come up.”
    
    
    We don’t want to be naysayers, but typically these are signs 
    that the sale is not going to happen; at least not within our 
    normal sales cycle.  There could be legitimate reasons as to 
    why the prospect can’t move forward that are beyond your 
    control.  So what do you do?
    
    First thing to do is to be on the lookout for anything that 
    sounds like a “not-buying” signal.   You want to hear those as 
    early in the sales process as you can so you can spend your 
    time with leads and prospects who are more likely buy within 
    your normal cycle. 
    
    Next, if you’re not sure what the real reason might be for not 
    moving forward, ask a question such as “Did we do something 
    wrong?”   (That’s also an effective message to leave for someone 
    not returning your calls.)  You may be able to get some valuable 
    information that can help you recraft a recommendation, or give 
    you more solid footing on which to move forward.
    
    Finally, always make sure that you have enough coming into your 
    sales pipeline; know how many new appointments you need at any 
    given time in order to achieve you numbers.  Don’t allow yourself 
    to get caught in “Pendingville” without a reliable map and escape 
    plan. 
    



    Writer's Resource Box:
    Mark Dembo and Thomas J. Baskind are Managing Partners in 
    DEI/Lexien of Greater New York, a sales performance improvement 
    and management consulting company. They invite you to visit 
    their website, http://www.lexien.com/, and welcome your 
    comments and inquiries.




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