Is there really a Santa Claus? Any parent who hasn't been
faced with this question most likely will at some point. But
how do you answer this? No one wants to crush a child's
dreams of Santa and holiday magic.
Some kids, like me, are crushed at school when they hear
from a classmate that they found all their presents under
their parents' bed, thus, proving there really is no Santa.
Then, reasoning sets in, which is about the time they begin
to wonder why they have been told this fairy tale all this
time as it was the truth.
So, is there truly a Santa Claus? Well, if you are in this
position you will probably be glad to hear that the only
true answer to this question is...yes, absolutely.
The name "Santa Claus" came from the Dutch "Sinter Klass"
pronunciation of St. Nicholas. St. Nicholas was a Christian
priest, who later became a bishop. He was a wealthy person,
and traveled the country helping others, giving gifts of
money and other presents. St. Nicholas chose to remain
hidden while giving these gifts, so the children were told
to go to sleep quickly or he would not come!
One famous story is about a poor man who had no money to
give to his three daughters on their wedding day. St.
Nicholas dropped bags of gold into the stockings which the
girls had left to dry by the fire. Ever since, children have
hung up stockings on Christmas Eve hoping that they will be
filled with gifts by Christmas morning.
According to the Catholics, a saint is one who lived such a
holy life that, after dying and going to heaven, is still
able to help people on earth.
In the 1500's people in England stopped worshipping St.
Nicholas and favored another gift giving figure Father
Christmas.
Now, no matter what your religious preference is or if you
even believe in Saints, doesn't change that St. Nicholas
represents a selfless act of giving. Rather it be material
gifts, money where needed or the often most valuable gift of
a little of your time, it's about the act of helping someone
else for no other reason then just because they need it.
As St. Nicholas had figured out as a young man, we truly, as
adults, begin to understand Santa Claus when we realize that
the best gift of all is not on the receiving end, but being
the one giving. And being rich doesn't always mean having a
lot of money. Often, especially these days, taking the time
to spend with someone, inviting them over for dinner or even
putting food on their table, can make all the difference.
But how do we explain this to a child? Well, we do it in
stages. They first have to learn how much receiving a gift
meant to them to understand how much it means to others. And
Santa Claus, well he is a perception of a truly magical
holiday spirit presented to them in a way with which they
can associate at this point in their lives.
So, how do we, as parents, answer this question in a way our
young children will understand? You, as a parent, should
decide when it's time to come clean. You can meter this by
deciding when you feel they will understand that Santa Claus
really does exist in all of us and he often means something
different to each person they'll meet. A child grasping this
is a big step towards learning what the holidays are truly
all about.
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